Surrender means simply relinquishing control. Or more to the point, the illusion of control.
We like to think we have much more control of things than we actually do. This isn’t to say you should feel helpless or develop a defeatist attitude. But you should know how to recognize the situations in which you may just need to let go.
Here are three things I know for sure about trying to control things:
1. We try to control things because of what we think will happen if we...